Souvenir

1. Did Meg realistically have a choice about whether or not to marry Brian? Even if her parents pressured her into it for reasons of their own, was anything stopping her from refusing? 2. Meg sacrifices her happiness for the sake of her parents . . . But do you think she embraces the role of martyr a little too zealously? And do you think the prospect of attending med school and becoming a doctor entered into her decision at all? 3. Does Meg ever come to grips with the fact that her parents have betrayed her by pressuring her into a loveless marriage solely for financial gain? How does this affect the kind of woman she becomes, as wife and mother? 4. Is there a chance that Meg's decision to marry Brian had something to do with her feelings for Carson? Is there evidence in the novel that she was afraid of the intensity of those feelings and was looking for a way out? What other reasons, besides what Meg consciously believes, could have influenced her decision? 5. William Faulkner once wrote, "The past isn't dead. It isn't even past." How do those lines pertain toSouvenir? 6. Did Carson give up on Meg too easily back in 1989? What more could he have done to win her back? 7. Are Meg and Carson trapped by the past? Are their memories and regrets preventing them from moving forward? 8. Do you think Carson and Meg find some peace and happiness by the novel's end? What has the price of that been for them and for those close to them? Was it worth it? 9. Did you find Meg to be a likable character? Why or why not? 10. How would you face a diagnosis of ALS, or Lou Gehrig's Disease? Do you think Meg makes the right choice, all things considered? 11. Does Carson do the right thing by breaking off his engagement with Val? Isn't he treating her the same way that Meg treated him years earlier? 12. What do you think made Savannah so vulnerable to Kyle's advances and to his introduction of drugs and sex into their relationship? 13. DoesSouveniraccurately portray the dangers of the Internet, or does it exaggerate the threats? 14. Truths are revealed and documented in Anna's notebooks and Meg's journal. Meg is determined to write only the truth in her journal, even if she is unable to tell the truth in real life. How is the written word liberating and restrictive? What purposes do the notebooks and journal serve to their authors and readers? Are Carson's lyrics his form of journal, a means of catharsis? 15. Is Meg a good mother? How does her relationship to her own mother color her relationship with Savannah? 16. The question of Savannah's paternity plagues Meg throughout her marriageyet, when she has the chance to know the answer, she's no longer so sure she wants it. Is this ambivalence understandable? In her shoes, would you choose to know?Fowler, Therese is the author of 'Souvenir' with ISBN 9780345499684 and ISBN 0345499689.